Relationship coaching & Mediation

The refresh button for relationships, both in business and private
Feelings of connectedness have changed into distance and coldness. Talking things through no longer works, or often results in discussion and conflict. You’ve given up on speaking about what really matters to you. You may even wonder why you stay in this place, in this relationship.

Resolving this together may feel like hard work or even an impossibility. A neutral, value-free setting can help to get closer again and resolve lingering issues. Relationship coaching helps you communicate differently, ask different questions and get a positive outlook.

Relationship coaching is helpful for:

  • life partners
  • family relationships (such as brother and sister or parent and child)
  • larger systems (such as teams in organizations, associations, voluntary organizations, boards)

When

People tend to let the existing situation in a disturbed relationship last too long, which costs a lot of energy. Take action and request an intake interview now! In this conversation (which can also be held separate from each other) we will investigate the goals, expectations and bottlenecks of all parties involved. You’ll learn how to find common ground again, to improve cooperation and communication.

How

Relationship coaching works through conversation, but also uses techniques that are less verbal. There is a difference between men and women in the ways in which they communicate. Women are more interested in words, men often want to be alone, choose how to do things and come to solutions. We will find a balance in this. We will aim to create tangible change quickly, and design what works for you from a diversity of approaches:

  • systemic work
  • constellation set ups
  • mindfulness
  • creative exercises
  • energy work

The refresh button for your relationship

Partners gain insight into themselves as well as each other, and into the non-helping dynamics that take place between them. We zoom out and move away from details, and instead listen between the lines to what is really going on. It is essential that everyone talks sincerely and as nuanced as they can about how they experience things and what they would like. We will look at your personal part of the interaction, and explore how things can be done based on a sincere understanding of the other.

During relationship coaching, attention is paid to the ingrained (limiting) patterns that you are not aware of. We look at what connects you and how you can maintain your individuality in the relationship. In this way parties can live and work together positively and lovingly again. Connectedness in freedom. During the coaching you’ll learn how you can give new meaning and form to your relationship through new ways and communication.

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“I have seen Erna at work in different contexts, and she always knew how to link her coach/trainer profession to her “big” heart. This characteristic inspires confidence and ensures that people follow the flow of her dialogue. Erna reflects, gives direction, motivates and inspires. We/I regard our/my insights as a precious good. Thanks!”

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Contact us

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+31(0)6 53 706 242

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Zimmermanhof 8, 6952 HT Dieren, The Netherlands

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